[原创] 经书上沒写的助念注意事项
<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">经书上没写的助念注意事项</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">作者：土匪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">(t0027673)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">创作于</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
<chsdate wst="on" isrocdate="False" islunardate="False" day="29" month="3" year="2006">2006/3/29</chsdate><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">学佛一段时间的人，都会知道人死亡时，是人生的重要时刻。若是亲人死亡时，莫不想以最如理如法的助念，让亲人离苦得乐。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">但</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">真的能如愿吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">实际上，虽有佛学知见为后盾，却不一定都能如愿助念，因为有一些经书上没写的事情要考虑。这些事情却是左右助念能不能圆满的主因，有时现实的条件、习俗观念及家族人员意见，往往让学佛家属忍不住急哭一场。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">当亲人往生时，我们知道要助念，但</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">若不是在家中往生，是在诸如医院、事故现场</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">等地，那要在哪助念？病房可是不会让您停放遗体举行助念，除非是特别病房或是有特殊关系。否则遗体是要马上送走的，所以助念场地是最先要考虑的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">遗体要送到哪里助念？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">很多人会答：送回家。回家是很多病人的心愿，遗体真的就可以送回家吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">哦～～～不一定哦！！！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">台湾习俗有些禁忌，如死在外地不能进厅堂、晚辈先死不能入门，最多只能在门外空地搭帐棚设灵堂放遗体。还有为解决死尸不入门的习俗，也有从医院就戴上呼吸器，一路压着呼吸气球回家，回到家中换好衣服，才拿掉呼吸器，认为这才是死亡时间了。其实人早在医院就己死亡，这就是现在变通的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">留一口气回家</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">，大家都心知肚明亡者早己没气了，只是没人愿意去当</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">白目</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">的人激起愤怒。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">若是家人是学佛家族，当然不理这些习俗，亡者可以在他熟悉的居家环境助念，走完人生最后旅程。但可以决定丧葬事宜的主事家属没学佛呢？若是住在公寓大厦，门外没空地搭帐棚，那遗体要送到哪里去助念？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">若不能在家中助念时，亡者是在医院往生时，遗体可以送到往生室助念，有些医院可能要收费。若医院没往生室、及在外地事故死亡者，遗体可送到殡仪馆、当地有往生室设备的葬仪社。有些地方的殡仪馆也没有所谓的往生室，需要付费租家祭室、小礼堂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">充当助念临时场所。没助念场地的话，付费租场地是唯一的办法，不然遗体就要送到冰库受寒冰之苦。若真无法助念且送到殡仪馆，记得先跟殡仪馆工作人员问看看，是否有停尸设备、规章，能否先停尸一天再冰，没法助念至少让遗体不要在灵识尚未离体的时候，受冰库的寒冰之苦。若没这规章办法，有时私下塞个红包，是世间法上有效的方法，记得要私下塞，明目张胆的给红包，没几个工作人员敢收。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">有了助念场地，也要看丧葬主事家属要不要请助念菩萨来助念，主事者不要，那也是很难达成助念。办丧事不是一个人的事，是整个家族的事，需要大家都没异议才行，否则争吵是免不了的，此时意见讨论交换找个认同点是必要的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">经书上对一些习俗有不少的批评，如洗身换衣、脚尾饭、烧纸钱、脚尾经</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">不过在实际上，在非学佛的传统家族中，若坚持一定不依习俗，一定会被叮的满头包，更甚者，家人因而反感拒绝助念佛事，那就得不偿失了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">其实这些习俗上的事是要看情况取舍，在必要时是要不得己退让，以换取助念的机会，改不了对方就要改变自己，只设定能有助念机会就好的底线，其它的随缘。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">有了助念场地及助念人员，那是否就能安心的助念？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">助念菩萨是能安心的助念，学佛家族也能安心助念，但助念的最主要人员</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">---</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">家属呢？是否能坐下来好好念佛？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">嘿！不一定哦！还有外力干扰</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">---</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">来自葬仪社。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">葬仪社？没说错吧？干他们什么事？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">没错！！！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">葬仪社会马上要家族成员名单，如儿子、女儿、内外孙，几年次、生肖</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">，还急着带家属去</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">看大厝</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（棺木）。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">要这些资料干嘛？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">"</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">大厝</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">"</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">须要这么急去挑吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">家族名单资料是要看入殓、火化、安葬的日子，还有印讣文。这时家属就忙着叫大家来写资料，大家手忙脚乱七嘴八舌，哪能安心助念？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">这资料急吗？看大厝急吗？对学佛家族是不急，对传统家族是急，对葬仪社是急。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">学佛家族是日日是好日，棺木环保合礼仪就可。这些事在助念圆满后再着手办也还来得及，<span style="COLOR: red;">有啥事会比让亲人在临终时得以安心往生净土更重要？</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">传统家族却是要选个好时好日免得家属</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">冲煞</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">到，葬仪社是急着卖出棺木、骨灰瓮，将丧事事宜敲定，以免有变卦而做不到生意。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">其实，所谓的看时辰，是在看葬仪社他们自己空档的时候，他们要了家属的资料年次，再跟看日子的老师私下说某天某时辰店里要忙，避开一下不要选，然后才选个没冲煞到主事家属的时辰。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">哈！！！结果家属花钱请葬仪社找人看日子，却是以葬仪社的空档为优先，不知内幕的家属，还以为那是对亡者、家属都是最好的日子。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">急着看大厝，是葬仪社怕同业竞争，时间拖久了被别家占去商机，才哄着家属在家属应该坐下来安心助念的时间，赶着去让葬仪社赚钱。当然，在传统家族习俗中，也是急着去挑棺木、看日子。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">在许可的因缘下，我都让家属知道，丧事可以在助念后，才通知葬仪社来处理</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">赚钱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">，这些丧事在安心助念后再张罗也还不迟，<span style="COLOR: red;">有啥事会比让亲人在临终时得以安心往生净土更重要？</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">土匪分享助念经历给您</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">^_^</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p>
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