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莲华勇士 2007-10-3 15:43

助念团团员守则

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 32.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">助念团团员守则1.助念时不可食用亡者家属提供之任何饮食（包括开水），以免烦扰丧家。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 12pt; TEXT-INDENT: -12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 12.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">2.助念圆满离开时，严禁收取任何费用，不论是以何种名义，如车马费、茶水费等，皆不可收取，若对方要求转交护持佛堂或供养<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">师父亦不可收取，应请其自行到佛堂<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">捐助或邮政划拨为之。<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">以避免流弊，并善护自己清净行<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">持。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 12pt; TEXT-INDENT: -12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 12.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">3.善加保护亡者身体免于被碰触或搬动，病人于临终弥留或刚断气八小时内皆不宜为其更换衣服。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 12pt; TEXT-INDENT: -12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 12.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">4.祇负责助念，并且祇以关怀的立场给亡者家属有关助念或利益亡者的建议，至于决定权仍在对方。有关助念以外的事如：葬仪社的选择或属医学范围（是否拔掉氧气管等）皆不予过问，更不谈怪力乱神等事。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 12pt; TEXT-INDENT: -12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 12.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">5.<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">为利于亡者往生，家属哭泣时，应劝其暂时离开<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">现场，以避免亡者<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">产生情执不舍，致障碍往生。应维持助念场所的安祥庄严，勿有喧哗吵闹，请家属有事在远方小声交谈。6.尽量劝请亡者家属一同助念，<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">因为亡者最听得进家人的声音，助念是亡者家属送亡者最后一程，至亲至爱的表现，助念团是站在辅导示范的立场去做。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 12pt; TEXT-INDENT: -12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 12.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">7.应尊重每一众生（包括亡者、亡者家属以及其它团员），严禁在亡者家属面前有与其它团员意见不合而大声争吵或态度不佳的情形。有意见、看法不同时，待事后再好好沟通。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 12pt; TEXT-INDENT: -12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 12.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">8.若遇家属焚烧纸钱应委婉劝止，或请其移至室外，或待助念圆满后再焚烧，以保护助念团员之呼吸系统。至于烧檀香等，若影响助念团员亦应委婉劝止。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 12pt; TEXT-INDENT: -12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 12.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">9.助念当中若有要事与其它团员沟通，请勿碰触他人身体，以免他人于定中被惊吓，此时可以小声以“某某师兄”或轻声弹指引起他注意即可。若需长时间沟通，请至远处小声交谈。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 18.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">10.每次助念由一人带领共修，晚到助念的团员请尊重前一团员的带领。勿出现两位带领人，也应完全尊重带领团员，勿出现一人在前带领持咒，一人在后弹指喊停，持咒念佛速度亦勿忽快忽慢或腔调与众不同而影响团体默契。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 18.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">11.参加助念，服装仪容以清淡端庄为主，不可奇装异服、或浓妆艳抹，言语态度亦要庄重。助念时勿东张西望、或坐立不安，且应注意自己坐姿，不宜有不雅或懒散感，以如幻庄严道场。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 18.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">12.若遇其它助念团体一同助念，则当尊敬之并通力合作同持佛号<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">以利益亡者往生。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 18.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">13.助念圆满时，须有团员负责对亡者家属说明往后53天亡者中阴期，应为亡者素供，家人应多念“阿弥陀佛”或观音心咒：嗡 嘛呢 贝咩 吽(拼音：om  ma ni  be me  hom)，并印经行善，回向亡者。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 18.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">14.各地方之助念，于人地时物上可能略有不同，故团员须听从团长或负责干部的领导，若有不同意见须待事后再行检讨，或请示<span lang="ZH-CN" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">法师决定，切勿有争吵之事发生。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 18.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">15.若团员同车一起或自行前往，应一路修法观想念佛持咒前往，切勿在车上闲聊，以期用最清净心念来利益亡者。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 66pt 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 5.5gd; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-para-margin-top: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 18.0pt; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;">16.助念团员应以念佛持咒，阅读净土经典为定课，以期以念佛持咒之功德力，更能利益亡者往生。

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