[转帖]命运的魔咒
<p><font face="宋体"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #990033; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">命运的魔咒</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #990033; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">命运的魔咒</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">童话世界的邪恶魔咒</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">童话里，一个典型版本就是邪恶的巫师或者巫婆对王子和公主施以魔法，念魔咒，结果英俊的王子变成呱呱叫的青蛙，美丽的公主也变成了不会说话的天鹅。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">小时候，每次听到这样的故事时，都会为故事中的主人公愤愤不平，痛恨为什么世界上有这样坏的魔咒。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">当然故事的结局一定是美好的。美丽的公主，英俊的王子最终得以解除魔咒，黑心的巫师也会得到应有的惩罚。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">童话中的故事也会在现实生活中上演，人物场景都不同了，情节却很类似，不同的时代，不同的社会和家庭只是做了不同程度的改版。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我们有没有受到这样的诅咒，只要回忆一下就知道了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">你真笨！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">你总是粗心！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">真的无可救药！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">写的字像鳖爬！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">又忘了，有没有忘记吃饭啊！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">怎么总是上课不注意听讲！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">看隔壁家的小孩如何好，你为什么不向人家学习！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">你看，这样的魔咒你是否很熟悉？这些常常是我们最亲近的人对我们念的，魔咒的外衣往往是为了我们好。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我们幼小的心灵不会就这样束手就范，在经过激烈抗议之后的更猛烈镇压下，我们终于承认自己。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">就是比别人笨！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">很难改正错误！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">记忆力不好！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">不如别的小孩优秀！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">写字很难看，无法见人！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">唉，我不是读书的那块料！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我不是好学生，我是坏孩子！没出息！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">长大以后，我们不但自己没能摆脱恶毒的诅咒，还会将这道魔咒重新加注在我们的下一代身上。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">错误被一再重复，悲剧反复发生。人生的无奈与失落挥之不去，乌云笼罩下的阴影遮蔽我们前行的道路，一片灰暗。我们美好的生活一开始就被诅咒了。<span lang="EN-US"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">解除魔咒的秘方</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">命运掌握在自己手里，魔咒之所以能够起作用，是我们自己臣服在他的淫威之下，自己甘愿做他的奴仆。觉醒到人生本来是自由的，便没有什么可以束缚我们的了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">想要拥有积极的人生，积极生活就好。你若要快乐，你就能快乐，放声高歌，尽情欢舞，你的生命是无所羁绊的，一切的障碍源自于我们太听从于自小受到的消极暗示。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">不要相信来自任何方面的消极评判，没有任何人有权利对我们进行审判和评定，真正的奖状是我们自己发给自己的，生命是不可以被妄做评判的。否则别人不负责任的消极评断的阴影将会吞噬我们活跃的生命能量。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">有一天，我训斥自己的女儿字写地很难看，既潦草又不认真。就在我滔滔不绝地申斥时，突然那一刻，我觉醒到，自己就是那个邪恶巫师正在给一个公主施加魔咒。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">奥，这个觉察让自己下了一跳。因为女儿的眼光中渐渐失去了往日的光芒，傻傻地望着我，不知所措，她一定是觉得自己真的很笨，字真的难看，很丢人，因为她相信她的爸爸说的都是对的，也是为了她好。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">有两种情况发生：一种情况，是以后她会写字更认真一些，力求写地工整，漂亮，但是被爸爸否定的伤痕不会轻易消失，也许等到她自己以后管教小孩的时候还会想起自己的父亲曾经对她的不满。另一种情况就是她真的会认为自己写不好字，永远也写不好，以至于放弃写好字的努力和希望，这将是一种永恒的宣判，对于写字的自卑将跟随她看到的任何文字。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">大多数情况，父亲说完这句话之后，转头就忘了自己曾说过什么，他实在不知道，他已经对最心爱的女儿造成了很大的心理伤害。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">望着女儿迷惘，沮丧的脸庞我急忙补充道：“实际上你写字的姿势非常优美，字体也很独特，相信不久你就会写的更好。”呵呵，我情急之下的胡言乱语竟然惹得女儿开心地笑起来，魔咒就这样解除了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">相信人生当中有很多这样繁琐的小事情发生，有的人生命力非常强盛，他可以不被消极的语言、消极的情绪所障碍，勇敢地突破出来。但是有很多人在他还弱小的时候，就被各种各样的魔咒紧紧地捆绑，生命从此不再自由。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">起床，快要迟到了！</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">小孩子上学前，我们经常这样唠叨。这样的语言也许重复在每一个早晨，小孩一直在这样急迫感的挟持下，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><a href="http://www.baidu.com/s?wd=%CB%AF%D1%DB%EB%FC%EB%CA%B5%C4%D2%E2%CB%BC&lm=0&si=&rn=10&ie=gb2312&ct=0&cl=3&f=1&rsp=3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099;"><span lang="EN-US">睡眼朦胧</span></span></a></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">地爬起来，赶快！赶快，不然就要迟到了，当然迟到的结果就是接受老师的训斥，同学地嘲笑，太伤自尊了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">成年以后，这种紧迫感一点也没有消除，即便现在功成名就，你还是隐隐会有一种快要来不及的感觉。你可以睡到几点都可以，可是你就是无法安然睡去。人生的这种说不清道不明的仓促感和急迫感随时压迫我们，让我们经常处于紧张和不安当中，似乎总是在担心来不及了，将要错过些什么。我有一个经营酒店的朋友时常向我唠叨：“我的命好苦！休假的时候竟然也会早上<span lang="EN-US">6</span>点醒来，醒来以后就再也睡不着了。”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">年轻的朋友眼看自己的同学，同事步入婚姻的殿堂，就惶惶终日不宁，千方百计要将自己嫁出去或者将某女娶进来，唯恐自己成为“圣女”（剩女）、圣男（剩男）。是什么让我们如此急促，面对生活中的大事也不能平静地面对。快迟到了，快来不及了，儿时的魔咒竟然一直在发挥他的魔力，很多人因此做了此生最不应该做的决定。<span lang="EN-US"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> <p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><a href="http://blog.sina.com.cn/shuijingjushi"><span style="COLOR: black;">http://blog.sina.com.cn/shuijingjushi</span></a></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">水境居士的博客</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p>