《家属助念体验分享》信与择
<p class="MsoPlainText" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-height-alt: 20.0pt; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 26pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">信与择</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 26pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" align="right" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: right; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">王震佛</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p></span></p><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font size="6">触机：</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">睡在先父的病床边陪着他走完他这一生的最后七天，不但让我切身的体认到真是生死事大，无常迅速，也觉得与先父的心灵是如此的接近。在与他相处的每分钟时间里，检讨了自己过去的心灵层面，这七天竟成了先父和我父子情缘之中共同最重要的一周。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p></span></p><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font size="6">背影：</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">先父是因胰脏癌过世的，前后不过三周的时间，他生前乐善好施，行侠仗义，为人爽快、风趣、幽默，浅酌啖肉是他的固定晚餐，自称是佛教信仰，却从未皈依，也从未听他诵过经，可是当他住院之后，每晚都低声念心经和大悲咒，那个躬曲的背影是我毕生难忘的景象。尤其是他的最后几天当生命流失得更快的时候，只能念“阿弥陀佛”，每夜当疼痛来袭，呼吸困难的时候，他仍不放弃以喉头发音不断的念着“阿弥陀佛”，于是我和他一起念佛号，白天就念大悲咒和心经给他听，这着实让他吃了一惊，怎么一个受洗过的天主教儿子居然念起了佛教经咒。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p></span></p><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font size="6">印证：</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">在他临终前的第三天，世交的小孩，楼大姐来病房探视后，给了我一本“往生净土必成要诀”和助念团的电话。当时，我连佛教为何事都尚无概念，等先父入睡后，才将“必成要诀”拿来读，等看完后，才发觉有那么多前所未闻的生死攸关的大事，对父亲是太重要了，特别是字里行间流露着一股温馨的暖流，设想得那么周到，指引着家属为什么，是什么，如何做，何时办何事，合上书本，心里顿然安定了许多。当先父病危的最后两天，他忍着痛楚不停地用杭州国语虔诵着“阿弥陀佛”时，我的眼眶已湿，但仍冷静清楚的记著书上的注意事项及方法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">当他陷入昏迷的时候，我和看护帮他净身并换好衣服，也得到医生的同意换到推车式的病床上。七月七日下午五时五分当医生宣布家父往生时，我立刻将“往生净土必成要诀”的第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">22</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">页“往生助念引导实际应用篇”翻给先父生前最宝贝的妹妹，要她附在家父的耳旁，大声照著书上的文稿念，我走出病房立刻打电话到助念团，只听得电话那头一个坚定得让我的心都踏稳似的声音传来，“好，请告诉我地点及病房号码，我们马上到。”不到三十分钟就看到目前法会时负责录像的洪师兄跑来，接着楼大姐也来加入临终关怀助念。不过只是一个多钟头的时间，当妹妹掀开罩单一看，先父居然面色红润，一直无法合拢的嘴，不但合拢了，还带着明显的微笑，看起来像是平时非常高兴的那种表情，与临终前半小时，简直判若两人，在场诸亲友无不称奇，就连我那只相信逻辑分析，且笃信基督的弟弟也惊喜赞叹得直说太不可思议了。要不是发生在自己的父亲身上，以前若有人跟我讲这些事，我一定会反问：“你的头壳有没有坏？”可是现在父亲以他的瑞相明证，使我相信了佛教临终关怀助念的功德，以及书中师父的叮咛和话语。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">七月二十一日告别式之后，举行火葬，居然烧得了舍利花，白色的及少许浅绿色的，请教了安厝骨灰罐的极乐寺住持满溢法师，她除了称赞先父生前的功德外，要我们将舍利花供在舍利塔内，亲友们在悲伤中带着喜悦。更妙的事是八月底左右，发现四个舍利塔中只有我的舍利塔里的舍利花长成了像珊瑚树状，并且颜色也由原先的白色变成了粉红色。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p></span></p><p><strong><font size="5"> </font></strong></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font size="6">抉择：</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">我是个从事金融管理工作的人，素来相信数字逻辑的因果推论和印证，由先父临终以来所显现的各种明证和现象，我也曾向在加拿大麦基尔大学癌症研究室担任主任的姨妈<personname productid="汪裕华" wst="on"></personname>汪裕华<personname></personname>博士请教了这些现象，她说以现代一鳞半爪的医学知识，不足以解释发生在先父身上的不可思议的现象，但她承认这些不可思议的力量的存在。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">先父的后事，是委由灵泉寺师兄所办的，所以在莲社立了一个七七的牌位，而母亲是已</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'New Gulim'; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'New Gulim'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">皈</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">依的佛教徒，也在庙里替先父立了一个七七的牌位，所以每周五到庙里，每周六到莲社就成了我这做长子的必修功课。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><strong><font size="5"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><p></p></font></strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 26pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><strong><font size="5"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 新宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 新宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">我觉得佛教的临终关怀，不但把宗教融合在我们生命必经的生死大事上，而且更超越了目前管理上最流行的“生涯规划”，而进入教我们去如何做“生生世世的规划”。一般的“生涯规划”也只到退休就终止了，没人会替你（你）安排退休后的设想。但佛教的往生净土法门，替我们规划好此生与无尽未来的修持方法、步骤与正途，很健康的谈人生，很自在的谈往生，并且更以临终关怀助念团实践自觉觉他、自度度他、自利利他的大菩提心愿，这些不都是信、愿、行的最好证明吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 48pt 0pt 0cm; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-para-margin-right: 4.0gd; mso-line-break-override: restrictions;"><span lang="EN-US" style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: line; FONT-FAMILY: 新宋体; 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